It's a time when those younger family members first begin to notice a decline in older loved ones. In fact, senior retirement communities and assisted living facilities across Oklahoma (from Moore to Harrah to Edmond) often notice an increase in inquiries from concerned family members after the holidays are finished.
As a Certified Senior Housing Professional - and an Oklahoma City Realtor who specializes in real estate services for seniors - I've spoken with many distressed family members who have confided their worries to me.
I've put together this list of things to look for if you believe that an older family member is facing safety issues while living alone.
6 Ways to Evaluate a Senior Citizen's Safety During a Holiday Visit
Medication:
Are they taking their meds as prescribed? Is their pillbox organized and up-to-date? if not, regular visits from a home health provider may be useful.
Housework and general maintenance is often the first thing to be neglected when an elderly parent begins to suffer a decline in health or mobility. Again, a senior health service that provides basic housekeeping may be helpful.
Loss of Memory or Other Cognitive Depreciation
As a family member, it's up to you to consider how serious this issue is. Obviously, some loss of memory and brain function is to be expected, so don't jump to conclusions just because Mom is forgetful. However, it's a trend that bears monitoring and you should pay attention to see whether the cognitive function loss is a serious safety issue or not.
Socialization
Do your loved ones have a strong support system like good neighbors and friends? If not, understand that seniors on the decline tend to isolate. Those with strong social networks are happier, healthier, and safer.
Safety Issues
Is your family member beginning to have trouble navigating their home? Are staircases, steps, and bathtubs posing a danger? What about throw rugs and strips that may be tripping dangers? Are there fire hazards in the kitchen?
Concerned family members can help alleviate some of these dangers, and a variety of age-in-place techniques (including either major or minor remodeling) can also serve to minimize threats in the household.
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Is your loved one eating properly? Be sure and scan the refrigerator and pantries. Are they well-stocked? If not, your family member may be having difficulty getting out of the house and navigating the streets of Oklahoma City to make it to the grocery. Or, they may just flat out forget to. Home health providers may also be of assistance in this regard.
These are just a few of the points to consider if you worry that a loved one may be sacrificing safety in living independently. As a Certified Senior Housing Professional in Oklahoma, I'll be happy to offer you advice, answer questions, and help you understand options if you need to consider moving a loved one from one home to another.
Contact me here for a no-obligation chat.
